Gogo Skhotheni’s ex lover Monde Shange launches podcast to create a safe space for men
Monde Shange Launches “Ring Us” Podcast to Redefine Masculinity Through Vulnerability
Former Gogo Skhotheni partner Monde Shange is entering the podcasting arena with a transformative vision – creating safe spaces for men to embrace emotional expression without shame. His new show, Ring Us, was born from a poignant public encounter that reshaped his understanding of modern masculinity.
During an appearance on Piano Pulse, Shange recounted the life-changing moment: witnessing a muscular, visibly emotional man having an intense conversation with his partner in a restaurant. “I saw this strong man crying openly, and realized how uncommon this sight still is,” Shange shared. His decision to offer the stranger a supportive hug became the catalyst for his podcast’s mission.
“Why should men only cry in hiding?” Shange challenged, highlighting society’s restrictive emotional norms for men. The heartfelt restaurant interaction – where his simple gesture of compassion visibly impacted the distressed man – cemented Shange’s determination to normalize male vulnerability.
Ring Us promises to tackle critical yet often avoided subjects like:
- Emotional health and grief
- Healthy relationship dynamics
- Personal growth and business success
The podcast’s powerful tagline, “Give silence a voice”, encapsulates Shange’s vision of transforming toxic masculinity into compassionate masculinity. By blending serious discussions with practical life topics, Shange aims to create balanced conversations that resonate with modern men.
This initiative arrives as mental health advocates increasingly emphasize the importance of emotional literacy for men’s wellbeing. Shange’s personal approach – combining lived experience with psychological awareness – positions Ring Us as a potential gamechanger in South Africa’s growing mental health conversation.