South African Women Discuss Dating Safety After Tragic First-Date Murder
Woman Reflects on First Date Safety After Olerato Mongale’s Tragic Death
A South African woman’s joyful TikTok video of her preparing for a first date has taken on a haunting new meaning following the alleged murder of Olerato Mongale, who was killed during a first date in Johannesburg.
From Excitement to Chilling Realization
The clip, originally shared by @nanzontheinternet, shows the woman happily styling her outfit and filming her preparations—a moment that now feels bittersweet. In a heartfelt repost, she reflected:
“This could’ve been me. It’s terrifying how quickly things can go wrong.”
Her post resonated deeply as women across Mzansi shared their own dating safety fears in the wake of Mongale’s death.
Mzansi Shares First-Date Horror Stories
The comments section became a space for collective grief and cautionary tales:
- @Muvhuya08: “A guy I met online robbed me mid-date, leaving me stranded. A stranger helped me call a friend for help.”
- @nasshyyy_: “Coming home safe is a luxury now. Justice for Olerato 💔.”
- @Yaya👑: “She did everything right—shared her location, picked the perfect outfit… and still didn’t make it back.”
- @nomthi_nkosi: “Deleting Tinder and Bumble. I’d rather be single than unsafe.”
A Nation on Edge
Many echoed fears about modern dating, with @makwaMeloe writing:
“Men are finishing us. I don’t trust anyone these days.”
The tragedy has sparked urgent conversations about women’s safety, with some vowing to avoid dating apps altogether.
Watch the TikTok Below
@nanzontheinternet A sad day to be a South African woman. You can take all the precautionary measures, you can Uber yourself, you can stay at home and not go on dates, you can go on walks around your neighborhood, you could go to work or to the gym. But when a man decides he wants to kill you he will 😭. #justiceforolorato #justiceforwomen ♬ Madoda Sabelani – Lloyiso
Source: Briefly News